KOTA KINABALU: The sad story of a single mother who attempted suicide two years ago has finally captured the attention of caring people and organizations who wish to lend a helping hand after her plight was reported by the media recently.
Noriah Massrin, a single mother from Kampung Kalansanan, was left to endure abject poverty with her six children, now aged 13-23, after her husband abandoned the family a long time ago.
The difficulties in providing for her three daughters and three sons have left the 47-year-old single mother physically and mentally drained.
The pains, especially with rumors of her husband having remarried, proved too hard to bear and drove to the edge about two years ago when she poured gasoline on her body and set herself on fire.
But her plight went unnoticed until the story of her 18-year-old son was reported the first day of Hari Raya.
The story of Shafie Ramlee, who could not even remember the last time he had a real Raya celebration, struck the heart of many, including community leaders and politicians who came forward to help the family.
“It is very seldom that we get Raya treats, what more new clothing like any other children in our neighborhood. We would just observe the morning Raya prayers and stay at home for the rest of the day... there are no decorations, no Raya cookies, nothing,” said Shafie when met at their dilapidated wooden house in Kampung Kalafisanan, Inanam, some 12 kilometers from here.
However, the young lad never succumbed to self-pity, and is in fact determined to bring about changes for the better for his family.
Currently,.the Lower Six student of Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Inanam hopes to be a teacher one day to help bring his family out of poverty.
“My mother hallucinates a lot, we will catch her talking to herself all the time ... she was so depressed when our father left,” he said.
“Her condition worsened and one day, she went to the kitchen and burned herself in an attempt to end her life. Luckily, we were all at home and managed to put out the fire,” Shafie said.
Noriah was rushed to the hospital and was warded for a month after suffering 80 per cent burnt on her hands and body.
Their burden got lighter after Shaffe’s elder sisters, Siti Nooraishah, 23, who is married with a son, and Siti Norasitah, 22, started working.
However, due to financial problem, Shafie younger siblings, Shafiq, 16, and Siti Norafikah, 15, had to stop schooling while the youngest Nor Arif, 13, never has any education.

Yesterday, Karambunai Assemblywoman Jainab Ahmad who was both shocked and touched by the story visited the family and presented some Duit Raya, food and drinks.
Jainab, who is also the Industrial Development Assistant Minister pledged to help the family to improve their life and had already asked the People -Development Officer (PKR) in the area to discuss with relevant organisations to find ways to ease the family’s burden.
She said apart from ensuring that Shafie and his younger siblings can continue their studies, effort will be made to seek assistance from various agencies to ensure Noriah’s family will get whatever assistance they need.
Next week, Jainab and her PKR will organise and finance a gotong royong to repair Noriah’s house.
More donation will be gathered and handed to Noriah next week, she added.
Jainab also urged all village head and JKKK chairman to ensure no more families like Noriah’s in their areas are left out without any assistance.
“Work together with relevant ministry and agencies so that no— one who really need help are left out,” she said.